But when you talk about it, don’t treat it like it’s something bad or like you’re sending it off to die somewhere. And the more time you spend naked together without trying to do anything, the better it will be. Orgasming wasn’t my concern, feeling comfortable with myself and my partner and being able to enjoy the next level of our relationship was what i wanted. Maybe waiting until the honeymoon isn’t such a bad idea, especially if it’s your first time. I was a bit disappointed because i thought iit would feel nice for me as well. I think talking about it is the hardest part.
Don’t forget the chocolate. That puts alot of pressure on young girls aspiring for marriage nowadays.